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Marital Violence and Coparenting Quality After Separation Jennifer L. Hardesty, University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign Kimberly A. Crossman, Southern Illinois University

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Lyndal Khaw, and Montclair State University Marcela Raffaelli University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign

Abstract

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Research has identified multiple predictors of coparenting quality, but few studies have investigated how intimate partner violence (IPV) affects divorcing couples’ coparenting relationships. We addressed this question in a sample of 154 mothers with different marital IPV experiences. Mothers were recruited within four months of a divorce filing and completed two interviews three months apart. At Time 1, mothers reported on violence and coercive control during marriage, and postseparation behavioral (e.g., parental communication), emotional (e.g., anger), and intrusion (e.g., harassment) dynamics; at Time 2, they reported on coparenting quality (i.e., levels of support and conflict). In the overall sample, divorce and violence variables independently predicted coparenting quality. Mothers were then classified into three groups: no violence (NV; n = 74), situational couple violence (SCV; n = 46), or coercive controlling violence (CCV; n = 34). Of the three, coparenting quality was lowest in the CCV group. While the SCV group was similar to the NV group on most divorce-related variables, the CCV group reported more hostility at separation and placed less importance on father-child relationships. Finally, patterns of association between study variables and coparenting quality showed some parallels between the SCV and NV groups. For CCV, postseparation harassment and fear were negatively associated with coparenting quality. Findings contribute to understanding predictors of coparenting quality and support the need for individualized assessments of divorce cases with attention to IPV dynamics.

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Keywords coercive control; coparenting; divorce; intimate partner violence; postseparation dynamics Children benefit when their parents are able to develop high quality coparenting relationships after divorce (Adamson & Pasley, 2006). Extensive theoretical and empirical

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work has conceptualized coparenting as multidimensional (Teubert & Pinquart, 2010). Two dimensions relevant to separated and divorced coparents are conflict and support (Maccoby, Depner, & Mnookin, 1990; Maccoby & Mnookin, 1998).1 Conflict refers to disagreements related to postseparation parenting, including negotiating structural changes (e.g., time children spend with each parent) or managing different rules across households (MaddenDerdich & Arditti, 1999). Support refers to the ability to offer mutual consideration to one another as parents (Masheter, 1997). Numerous correlates of coparenting quality after separation have been identified, but few studies have considered intimate partner violence (IPV; Hardesty et al., 2012). In the U.S., courts are mandated to factor IPV into custody decisions (Jaffe, Crooks, & Poisson, 2003). Because the potential to coparent may vary by type or context of marital IPV, researchers have called for a differentiated versus one-sizefits-all approach (Hardesty, Khaw, Chung, & Martin, 2008; Jaffe, Johnston, Crooks, & Bala, 2008). The current longitudinal study contributes to the literature by examining multiple predictors of coparenting quality among divorcing mothers and exploring how factors differ by type of marital IPV. To our knowledge, this is the first study to examine coparenting quality in a sample of mothers with different IPV experiences.

Coparenting Quality After Separation

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Family scholars contend that early in the divorce process parents must begin to develop new patterns of relating and negotiate boundaries that distinguish their roles as parents from their relationship as former spouses. Family systems theory proposes that successful renegotiation of clear family boundaries is a central task for creating high quality coparenting relationships, or, as defined here, relationships with low conflict and moderate to high support (Emery & Dillon, 1994). For example, Markham, Ganong, and Coleman (2007) found that mothers with high quality coparenting relationships communicated frequently with former partners but limited communication to parental-related topics. Conversely, boundary ambiguity, or the inability to redefine family boundaries in a way that removes the former partner from a spousal role, has been linked to poor quality coparenting (MaddenDerdich, Leonard, & Christopher, 1999). Indeed, coparenting relationships suffer when divorced parents do not separate their personal relationship issues from coparenting ones (Markham & Coleman, 2012).

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Successful renegotiation of relationships also involves an emotional divorce in which former partners withdraw their emotional investment in one another. Intense emotions, such as hostility at separation (Maccoby et al., 1990; Madden-Derdich & Arditti, 1999) and persistent anger (Jamison, Coleman, Ganong, & Feistman, 2014), may indicate a continued emotional attachment and are linked to poor quality coparenting. In contrast, positive feelings, such as friendship, have been associated with less conflict and more support (Adamsons & Pasley, 2006). Divorced parents also have fewer conflicts when they feel they can trust their former partner as a parent (Madden-Derdich & Leonard, 2000; Markham &

1Although not examined in the current study, triangulation is a third dimension widely considered in studies of coparenting among married or cohabiting parents (e.g., Baril, Crouter, & McHale, 2007; Margolin, Gordis, & John, 2001; Teubert & Pinquart, 2010). Consistent with the majority of studies of separated or divorced coparents, we focused on conflict and support. Examining triangulation in divorcing parents is an important direction for future research (for examples, see Buchanan, Maccoby, & Dornbusch, 1991 and Macie & Stolberg, 2003).

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Coleman, 2012). Valuing the other parent’s ongoing involvement with children also relates to better coparenting quality (Madden-Derdich & Leonard, 2000; Markham et al., 2007). Finally, studies have identified demographic correlates of poor quality coparenting, including larger families, younger children (Maccoby et al., 1990), and less time since separation (Adamsons & Pasley, 2006).

Intimate Partner Violence and Coparenting After Separation

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A history of IPV is common among the minority of parents who experience high conflict during divorce (Morrill, Dai, Dunn, Sung, & Smith, 2005). Presumably, these parents are among those who have the most difficulty coparenting. Nonetheless, IPV is likely not limited to those divorcing parents identified as “high conflict,” as postseparation dynamics vary among relationships with IPV. Indeed, studies suggest different dynamics emerge based on type of marital IPV. Johnson (2008) identified two main types of IPV – coercive controlling violence and situational couple violence – that are distinguished by the context within which violence occurs. In coercive controlling violence, physical violence is embedded in a larger pattern of nonviolent behaviors aimed at maintaining control over a partner’s daily life. Situational couple violence is not embedded in a larger relationship-wide pattern of controlling behaviors. Instead, this violence occurs in specific situations, such as escalating arguments. Studies document differences between these IPV types in dynamics and consequences (e.g., coercive controlling violence tends to be more frequent and severe; Johnson, 2008). However, because the nature of the violence within each type can vary, the types are not defined by frequency or severity of violence but rather by the control context in which the violence occurs (Johnson & Leone, 2005).

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Two qualitative studies of divorced mothers’ coparenting relationships with abusive former husbands found differences by type of marital IPV (Hardesty & Ganong, 2006; Hardesty et al., 2008). Developing clear boundaries between parental and former spouse relationships was most challenging for mothers who experienced coercive controlling violence. Controlling former husbands continued to intrude upon mothers’ lives, often in the form of harassment, but also by creating a persistent climate of fear and threat, consistent with other studies that have also documented postseparation harassment, fear, and threat after women leave abusive and controlling partners (Bowen, 2011; Ford-Gilboe, Wuest, & Merritt-Gray, 2005). In contrast, mothers in Hardesty et al. (2008) who experienced situational couple violence had former husbands who reportedly were better able to develop boundaries. Compared to the former group, these mothers reported being able to coparent effectively after divorce despite prior violence. To our knowledge, these associations have not been analyzed in a quantitative framework.

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Conceptual Framework Consistent with family systems theory, the above literature demonstrates that the behavioral and emotional dynamics of the early divorce process predict coparenting quality. In the current study, behavioral dynamics include the clarity of boundaries between parental and former spouse relationships. Unclear boundaries, which have been associated with poorer coparenting quality, are indicated by more boundary ambiguity, less parental

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communication, and more nonparental communication. Emotional dynamics in the current study refer to the extent of emotional attachments or intense emotions. Less effective emotions, which have been associated with poorer coparenting quality, include more hostility, more anger, less positive feelings toward the former partner in general, and less trust, as evidenced by less positive feelings toward the former partner as a father and less value placed on ongoing father-child relationships. Based on prior violence research, postseparation intrusion dynamics are also expected to predict coparenting quality. Consistent with Ford-Gilboe et al. (2005), we conceptualize postseparation intrusion as unwanted interference into mothers’ everyday lives. Greater intrusion is indicated by more harassment, fear, and perceived threat of future harm.

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Finally, integrating Johnson’s (2008) typology serves to contextualize the process of developing coparenting relationships. As posited by Hardesty and colleagues (2012), postseparation dynamics and the quality of coparenting relationships will be influenced by type of IPV experienced in marriage. To investigate this, an examination of coercive control is necessary. Coercive control, which is central to distinguishing between Johnson’s types of IPV, is defined as a pattern of behaviors aimed at regulating and dominating a partner’s daily life (Hardesty et al., 2015). This narrow definition restricts the assessment of coercive control to behaviors aimed at domination and isolation, such as making a partner account for her whereabouts, interfering with her relationships with family and friends, or restricting her use of the phone (Tolman, 1992). Although some studies have used broader definitions, including emotionally or verbally abusive behaviors (e.g., insulting or criticizing, name calling, shouting or swearing; e.g., Adkins & Kamp Dush, 2010; Johnson & Leone, 2005), the current study used a narrow approach to avoid the risk of conflating controlling tactics with other types of behaviors (Frye, Manganello, Campbell, Walton-Moss, & Wilt, 2006). As Tolman (1992) explained, verbally and emotionally abusive behaviors may occur in relationships with or without coercive control; tactics of dominance and isolation, however, are particularly characteristic of the motive to control one’s partner.

The Current Study Three research questions (and associated hypotheses) were addressed: 1.

What factors predict coparenting quality among mothers early in the divorce process?

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We hypothesized that presence of marital violence and greater coercive control; unclear boundaries (i.e., more boundary ambiguity, less parental communication, more nonparental communication), less effective emotions (i.e., more hostility, more anger, less positive feelings toward former partner in general and as a father, less valuing of father-child relationships) and greater intrusion (i.e., more harassment, fear, and perceived threat) after separation would be associated with poor coparenting quality at the bivariate level. We also conducted multivariate analyses to explore which of these variables had unique associations with coparenting quality. 2.

Do coparenting quality and postseparation dynamics differ by type of marital IPV?

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We hypothesized that mothers who experienced coercive controlling violence during marriage would report the least clear boundaries, least effective emotions, and greatest intrusion compared to mothers who experienced situational couple violence or no violence in marriage. 3.

Do patterns of associations between postseparation behavioral, emotional, and intrusion dynamics and coparenting quality differ by type of marital IPV? Based on the expectation that IPV during marriage creates a context that continues to affect the relationship between former partners, we explored whether different patterns of association between predictors and coparenting (examined in the first research question) would emerge among mothers with different types of marital IPV.

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Methods Data were from two studies of mothers in the process of divorce. The first study, conducted in 2009–2010, used the same inclusion criteria, recruitment methods, and assessment as the second study that began in 2010. The study had IRB approval and numerous precautions were taken to ensure mothers’ safety and privacy. In-person interviews (two in the first study, five in the second study) were conducted with each participant at three-month intervals.

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Potential participants identified via public records in a large Midwest county were sent a recruitment letter if they had a divorce filing within the past four months. Additional inclusion criteria were that they (a) had at least one child under age 18; (b) had custody of their child(ren) at least 25% of the time; (c) were physically separated from their former partner for less than three years; and (d) could understand and speak English. Letters were sent to 804 women named in a divorce filing between September 2009 and December 2012, and 24% (N = 190) completed the first interview. Of the 609 non-participants, 50 were eligible and interested but did not show up for scheduled interviews or respond to scheduling efforts; 36 declined to participate; 27 did not meet the criteria; and 496 never responded to recruitment efforts (we are unable to determine whether the latter group met the criteria for inclusion or received the recruitment letter).

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Of the 170 mothers who completed the first two interviews, 154 had complete data on relevant measures of coparenting and comprise the analytic sample. Mothers in the analytic sample were between the ages of 21.6 and 54.7 years (M = 35.85, SD = 7.14) and predominantly White (n = 126, 81.8%). Seventeen mothers (11.0%) identified as Black or African American, 5 (3.2%) as Asian or Asian American, 5 (3.2%) as biracial, and 1 (0.6%) as Latino or Hispanic. Mothers had between one and four biological or adopted children with their former partner (M = 1.75, SD = 0.73) and their youngest child was between < 1 to 17 years old (M = 5.84, SD = 4.17). At the first interview (Time 1), mothers had been physically separated from their former partner for .05). Some significant correlations were found between demographic and predictor variables, so a regression model including demographic controls was tested. The results were essentially identical to the model that did not include demographic controls, and none of the coefficients for the demographic variables were significant. Therefore, to conserve power in these analyses, we present models without controls. Research Question 1: Predictors of Coparenting Quality Among Divorcing Mothers

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Bivariate correlations are displayed in Table 1. The following variables assessed at Time 1 were negatively correlated with coparenting quality at Time 2: presence of violence and frequency of coercive control in marriage, hostility, anger, harassment, fear, and perceived threat of future harm. Variables that were positively associated with coparenting quality were: frequency of parental communication, positive feelings toward the former partner in general and as a father, and importance of father-child relationship. Frequency/severity of marital violence, boundary ambiguity, and nonparental communication were not

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significantly correlated with later coparenting quality. Coparenting quality at Time 1 was associated with Time 2 coparenting quality (see Table 2). Variables that did not present issues of multicollinearity were included in a single regression analysis. The first step included Time 1 coparenting quality (to control for initial levels of this variable), the second step marital violence and coercive control, and the third step indicators of postseparation behavioral, emotional, and intrusion dynamics. As shown in Table 2, Time 1 coparenting quality was significant on initial entry and remained significant at all subsequent steps; the overall model was significant at all three steps.

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At the second step, the addition of marital violence and coercive control did not account for a significant proportion of the variance in Time 2 coparenting quality. The addition of postseparation variables at Step 3 contributed additional explanatory power to the model. In the final model, after controlling for coparenting quality at Time 1, two variables were uniquely associated with Time 2 coparenting quality: positive feelings toward the former partner in general (positively) and perceived threat of future harm (negatively). Research Question 2: Differences in Divorcing Mothers’ Experiences by IPV Group

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We turn next to an examination of differences between mothers with different experiences of marital IPV2. The MANOVA comparing the three IPV groups on the study variables showed a significant effect for group, F = 3.73, df = 24, p < .001. Descriptive statistics and results of group comparisons are shown in Table 3. Coparenting quality was significantly lower in the CCV group than in the NV group (the SCV group did not differ significantly from the other two groups). No significant differences were found on postseparation behavioral dynamics, but differences in postseparation emotional and intrusion dynamics were found. In terms of emotional dynamics, mothers in the CCV group reported more hostility at separation and placed less importance on maintaining the father-child relationship than mothers in the other two groups; they also reported less positive feelings towards their former partner as a father than the NV group. Group differences on postseparation intrusion showed a different pattern, with the CCV group reporting higher levels of postseparation harassment, fear, and perceived threat of future harm than the other two groups, and the SCV group reporting higher levels on these variables than the NV group.

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The two violence groups did not differ significantly on frequency and severity of marital violence; however, to ensure that group differences reported above were due to the coercive control context rather than differences in violence, post-hoc tests were conducted to compare the two violence groups while covarying frequency and severity of marital violence. Four of the five variables remained significant and one became marginally significant (harassment after separation), suggesting that these group differences indeed reflect the context of control.

2Preliminary analysis indicated that the three IPV groups differed on two demographic variables. Mothers in the CCV group were younger (M = 31.82 years; SD = 6.55) than the NV (M = 36.62 years; SD = 6.89) and SCV (M = 37.57 years; SD = 6.96) groups, F (2,153) = 7.84, p = 0.00. The groups also differed in educational attainment, with the NV group (60.8%) most likely to have a Bachelor’s degree or higher, followed by the SCV (56.5%) and CCV group (32.4%), X2 (2, N = 154) = 7.86, p = 0.02. Therefore, we controlled for age and education in analyses comparing IPV groups on divorce and violence variables.

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Research Question 3: Correlates of Coparenting Quality Within IPV Groups

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The previous set of analyses identified differences in mothers’ postseparation experiences based on marital IPV group. Within-group analyses explored whether the IPV groups showed different patterns of association between study variables and Time 2 coparenting (Table 4). Mirroring the results for the overall sample, three variables were correlated with coparenting quality in all three IPV groups (frequency of parental communication and positive feelings toward the former partner as a father, positively, and perceived threat of future harm, negatively). In the NV and SCV groups, anger toward the former partner was negatively, and positive feelings toward the former partner in general positively, associated with coparenting quality. Two associations were significant only in the CCV group: harassment and fear after separation were both negatively correlated with coparenting quality. Finally, importance of the father-child relationship was positively correlated with coparenting quality only among mothers who had experienced SCV. Post-hoc tests were conducted to compare the magnitude of significant correlations across groups; none of these pairwise comparisons were significant.

Discussion

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In a recent Think Tank report convened by the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts, researchers, legal scholars, practitioners, and policymakers concluded that there is no one-size fits-all approach to parenting after separation, even among parents with a history of IPV (Pruett & DiFonzo, 2014). Rather than assuming IPV always precludes the potential for coparenting after separation, case-specific assessments of the nature and context of IPV and ongoing risks after separation are necessary (Ver Steegh, 2004). Thus, research is needed to assist professionals as they carefully weigh mothers’ and children’s individual safety needs with potential benefits of coparenting. To our knowledge, the current study is the first to examine what factors predict coparenting quality among divorcing mothers with and without a history of IPV and how patterns of association differ by IPV type. As proposed by Hardesty et al. (2012), we advance existing knowledge by simultaneously examining predictors from both the divorce and violence literatures, as these literatures have remained largely distinct on the topic of coparenting after separation. Strengths of our study include a longitudinal design using a sample of mothers with diverse IPV experiences early in the divorce process, when conflict in general divorcing samples and risks associated with IPV tend to be elevated (Walker, Logan, Jordan, & Campbell, 2004). Predicting Coparenting Quality

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Our first goal was to conduct an integrated examination of associations between coparenting quality, marital violence and control, and postseparation behavioral, emotional, and intrusion dynamics. Bivariate and multivariate analyses clarified the unique and combined predictive role of multiple divorce and violence-related variables identified in prior theory and research, supporting the need to integrate variables across these bodies of literature (Hardesty et al., 2012). In bivariate analyses, divorce-related predictors of coparenting quality, such as hostility and positive feelings, were similar to those reported in past research, with the exception of boundary ambiguity and communication about nonparental topics. Family systems theory posits that successful boundary renegotiation is central to

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developing quality coparenting relationships. Indeed, studies document the importance of developing boundaries that clearly differentiate former spousal from coparental relationships (e.g., Khaw & Hardesty, 2015; Madden-Derdich et al., 1999). However, in our sample of mothers who were early in the divorce process, boundary ambiguity was not associated with coparenting quality. Frequency of communication about nonparental topics, which may reflect unclear boundaries, also was not associated with later coparenting quality. In contrast, emotional dynamics were associated with higher quality coparenting relationships three months later.

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In multivariate models that controlled for Time 1 coparenting quality, positive feelings toward the former partner in general was the only divorce-related variable that independently predicted coparenting quality. The results support those of Jamison et al. (2014), in which resilient coparents were able to think about their former partners in somewhat positive terms even if they did not like them. Doing so helped them remain focused on their children rather than unresolved former spouse issues. Researchers might consider whether emotional shifts or renegotiations of internal boundaries are more relevant to coparenting quality early in the divorce process than Boss et al.’s (1990) conceptualization of boundary ambiguity as a structural renegotiation of boundaries. Fewer than a fifth of our sample had a finalized divorce at Time 1. Longitudinal data are needed to examine whether boundary ambiguity and its effects on coparenting quality become more prominent sometime after divorces are finalized.

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Only one violence-related variable was independently significant in the multivariate model – perceived threat of future harm. Based on inspection of means, most mothers reported some perceived threat of future harm. As Nielsen, Hardesty, and Raffaelli (2015) posited, divorce transitions may heighten a sense of threat for all divorcing parents (e.g., to lose money or the children), not just those with IPV histories. Thus, threat appraisal measures may not differentiate mothers’ needs based on IPV as much as tap into the fears common to all divorcing parents. Future qualitative studies with mixed samples are needed to better understand the context and meanings attached to perceived threat for mothers with and without a history of IPV. Examining How Type of Marital IPV Relates to Postseparation Dynamics

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Our second goal was to examine how postseparation dynamics differed by type of marital IPV. Consistent with Johnson’s (2008) typology of IPV, the first set of analyses conducted to address this goal involved comparing mothers who had experienced different combinations of violence and coercive control during marriage. As hypothesized, coparenting quality differed significantly by IPV group and was lowest for the CCV group. For these mothers, postseparation dynamics were characterized by higher levels of hostility and intrusion (i.e., harassment, fear, and threat). The control context present during marriage appeared to persist after separation, which is consistent with other studies (Markham & Coleman, 2012; Ornstein & Rickne, 2013). Not surprisingly, these mothers had less positive feelings toward their former partner as a father and placed less importance on the father-child relationship. Nonetheless, mothers across IPV groups did not differ in levels of anger or positive feelings toward their former partner in general. Thus, the heightened negative emotions toward

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fathers/father-child relationships among mothers in the CCV group likely reflect persistent intrusion dynamics and safety concerns (Khaw & Hardesty, 2015). Custody evaluators and legal professionals may assume that mothers who are resistant to coparenting are “unfriendly parents.” Indeed, in one study, custody evaluators’ perceptions of mothers’ demeanor (hostile vs. receptive to coparenting) was the only variable that consistently predicted their custody recommendations (Hardesty, Hans, Haselschwerdt, Khaw, & Crossman, 2015). Practitioners must remain open to the fact that resistance to coparenting may represent a reasonable reaction to violence and control.

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We also explored whether predictors of coparenting quality differed among mothers with different types of marital IPV. Although the findings must be considered tentative due to sample size limitations, there were indications that associations between coparenting quality and divorce-related variables within the SCV group were more similar to those in the NV group than the CCV group. For example, anger and positive feelings toward former partner were associated with coparenting quality among NV and SCV mothers but not those in the CCV group. This may lend support to prior claims that parents with a history of SCV may benefit from traditional approaches to supporting divorcing parents (e.g., parent education classes) or with high conflict (e.g., divorce mediation) if threats to safety do not persist after separation (Hardesty et al., 2008; Jaffe et al., 2008). In contrast, results suggest unique dynamics and intervention needs among the CCV group.

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Harassment and fear after separation were significantly associated with poor coparenting quality for the CCV group. According to Ford-Gilboe et al. (2005), mothers’ energies after separation from violent partners went toward managing and limiting ongoing intrusion. Reports of harassment and fear should be red flags for professionals, as they are associated with risks for mothers and their children that prevent safe and healthy coparenting relationships. Persistent harassing behaviors and the production of fear represent an extension of the control dynamics from marriage. In these situations, the communication and contact necessary for coparenting provide sanctioned opportunities for abusers to continue controlling their former wives (Pruett & DiFonzo, 2014). Furthermore, fear may silence mothers in these situations, leading them to agree to potentially unsafe coparenting arrangements to avoid angering their former partners (Pruett & DiFonzo, 2014). For these reasons, individual assessments, rather than traditional divorce interventions, are critical and should consider postseparation harassment and fear in addition to assessing the dynamics of IPV during marriage. Unfortunately, as Markham and Coleman (2012) point out, group interventions, such as parent education classes, often overlook IPV dynamics by providing the same message to all divorcing parents about the benefits of coparenting.

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Study results should be considered in the context of several limitations. First, although the sample size was sufficient for analyses using the overall sample, we were limited in our ability to explicate within-group patterns of association. Future research that examines the moderating role of IPV group (e.g., in a regression framework) is needed to address this limitation. Second, the extent to which our sample is representative is unknown. However, by recruiting a nonclinical sample using public divorce records, we were able to capture diverse IPV experiences. Third, results are based on mothers’ reports and thus do not reflect fathers’ perspectives, which are important to consider in future studies of coparenting

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dynamics. Reliance on data collected from a single reporter also increases the likelihood that associations among variables will be inflated by shared method variance. However, the longitudinal design, use of validated measures, and collection of data through in-person interviews bolster confidence in the validity of findings. Finally, other dimensions of coparenting quality, such as triangulation or placing children in the middle of parental conflict (Adamsons & Pasley, 2006), were not considered in the current study.

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Notwithstanding these limitations, the study makes important contributions. Poor quality coparenting relationships have been associated with negative effects for mothers and children (e.g., Fabricius & Luecken, 2007; Whiteside & Becker, 2000). Consistent with Hardesty et al. (2012), we demonstrated that both divorce- and violence-related perceptions and experiences influence mothers’ coparenting relationships with their former partners. For example, results of multivariate analyses with the full sample highlight the importance of positive feelings toward fathers in general (divorce variable) and perceived threat of future harm (violence variable) for predicting coparenting quality. A noteworthy finding was that neither the presence of violence nor frequency of coercive control in marriage was independently associated with coparenting quality in regression analyses, but that groups formed by combining these two variables showed multiple differences. These results indicate that important information may be missed when IPV context is ignored. With CCV, for example, harassment and fear after separation may be important IPV dynamics to consider when predicting coparenting quality. Taken as a whole, study findings contribute to understanding predictors of coparenting quality early in the divorce process and support the need for individualized assessments that take into account the type of IPV experienced in marriage.

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Acknowledgments This research was supported by the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD) [R21HD061559A], the Department of Human Development and Family Studies and Office of Research in the College of Agricultural, Consumer and Environmental Sciences at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, and Hatch Grant 793-348 from the USDA National Institute of Food and Agriculture.

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−.22** −.27** .38** .49** .27** −.27** −.31** −.48** −.20* −.08 −.12 −.20* 3.21 0.78

6. Hostility

7. Anger

8. Positive att.-general

9. Positive att.-father

10. Importance of father-child rel.

11. Fear

12. Harassment

13. Perceived threat

14. Presence of marital violence1

15. Freq. of marital violence

16. Freq. of severe marital violence

17. Coercive control in marriage

Mean

Standard Deviation

0.77

Coded dichotomously as 0 (no violence) or 1 (violence).

1

p < 0.01.

**

p < 0.05;

*

.11

−.32**

.15

5. Nonparental comm.

3.16

.39**

.28**

.35**

4. Parental comm.

0.54

2.24

−.11

.02

.06

.00

.26**

.02

.36**

.27**

−.01

.21**

.51**

−.08

3. Boundary ambiguity

--

−.10

.61** --

--

3

2. T1 Copar quality

2

1. T2 Copar quality

1

0.96

2.50

−.11

−.08

−.09

−.10

−.29**

−.14

−.17*

.44**

.50**

.37**

−.15

−.09

.48**

--

4

0.50

1.70

.05

.00

.05

.10

−.08

.08

−.05

.24**

.27**

.41**

.04

.02

--

5

1.54

2.82

.38**

.16*

.19*

.35**

.31**

.35**

.36**

−.32**

−.19*

−.15

.06

--

6

0.89

2.05

.07

.28**

.27**

.16

.23**

.11

.01

−.34**

−.34**

−.28**

--

7

1.06

2.65

−.13

−.17*

−.13

−.00

−.20*

−.10

−.12

.41**

.41**

--

8

1.04

3.67

−.17*

−.28**

−.22**

−.18*

−.37**

−.23**

−.23**

.52**

--

9

1.04

4.46

−.28**

−.31**

−.29**

−.15

−.39**

−.16*

.27**

--

10

0.97

0.67

.36**

.15

.18*

.41**

.66**

.59**

--

11

6.41

5.11

.42**

.19*

.35**

.45**

.66**

--

12

0.61

1.55

.40**

.24**

.31**

.39**

--

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n/a

55%

.41**

.38**

.53**

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14

12.85

7.14

.35**

.88**

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15

5.88

2.32

.31**

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Perceived threat

Step Statistics

p < 0.01.

**

p < 0.05;

*

0.01 −0.37

Harassment 0.13

0.01

0.07

−0.27**

0.05

0.12

0.21*

−0.01

R2ch =.09, Fch = 2.44*

0.10

Positive feelings – as father

0.06

0.07

R2ch = .00, Fch = 0.16

0.15

Positive feelings – general

0.00

−0.07

0.03

−0.08

0.05

0.00

0.34**

β

R2 = .46, F = 9.69**

−0.01

Anger

0.04

0.12

0.07

0.12

0.01

0.12

0.10

SE

Step 3

R2 = .37, F = 28.88**

0.00

Hostility

R2 = .37, F = 87.29**

−0.11

Nonparental communication

Model Statistics

0.02

0.01

0.01

0.35

B

−0.12

0.03

−0.04

0.61**

B

Parental communication

0.01

0.11

0.07

SE

Step 2

Boundary ambiguity

0.00

0.62

0.61** −0.06

0.07

B

β

Coercive control in marriage

0.62

SE

Presence of violence in marriage

Coparenting quality (T1)

B

Step 1

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Parental communication

Nonparental communication

3.56 (1.08) 4.63 (0.90)3

4.62 (0.84)3

Importance of father-child relationship

1.64 (0.60)1,3

1.31 (0.38)2,3

Perceived threat

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3.33 (6.72)

5.06 (6.88)

15.62 (15.44)

1.98 (0.76)1,2

1.41 (1.26)1,2

9.79 (7.97)1,2

3.88 (1.29)1,2

3.40 (1.13) 1

2.48 (1.17)

2.22 (0.89)

4.00 (1.30) 1,2

1.78 (0.57)

2.33 (1.01)

2.16 (0.52)

2.95

(0.62)1

M (SD)

−1.13

−1.46

t

18.82**

24.44**

21.80**

5.45**

3.83*

0.70

1.54

19.12**

0.44

1.20

2.60

4.29*

F

Tests of Group Differences

p < 0.01.

p < 0.05;

**

*

a Coparenting quality was assessed at Time 2; all other variables were assessed at Time 1.

Note: Group differences in postseparation dynamics were examined using MANOVA (adjusting for age and education). For ease of interpretation, unadjusted means are displayed. For variables with significant F-tests, numeric superscripts indicate significant differences between the group in that column and the group designated by the superscript (p < 0.05). Differences between the SCV and CCV group on marital violence characteristics were evaluated by t-tests (by definition, the NV group did not experience any marital violence.

n/a

Frequency of violence

10.91 (13.27)

0.78 (0.94)1,3

0.26 (0.52)2,3

Fear

Characteristics of Marital Violence

6.50 (6.29)1,3

2.09 (3.51)2,3

Harassment

Postseparation Intrusion Dynamics

2.77 (1.02)

2.65 (1.04) 3.86 (0.94)3

2.16 (0.93)

Positive feelings – as father

1.91 (0.79)

Anger

2.85 (1.49) 1,3

1.73 (0.53)

2.47 (0.95)

2.40 (0.53)

3.15 (0.86)

Positive feelings – general

2.27 (1.38)2,3

Hostility

Postseparation Emotional Dynamics

2.18 (0.53)

3.37

M (SD)

(0.76)3

M (SD)

Boundary ambiguity

Postseparation Behavioral Dynamics

Time 2 Coparenting qualitya

Variable

Group 2: Situational Couple Violence (n = 46)

Group 1: No Violence (n = 74)

Group 3: Coercive Controlling Violence (n = 34)

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0.52** 0.21

Positive feelings – as father

Importance of father-child relationship

−0.42**

Perceived threat

n/a n/a

Frequency of violence

Severity of violence

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p < 0.01.

**

−.001

−0.13

−0.49**

−0.08

Fear

Characteristics of Marital Violence

−0.21

−0.19

Harassment

−0.22

0.20

0.36*

0.45*

Positive feelings – general

Postseparation Intrusion Dynamics

0.49**

−0.31*

−0.28*

−0.13

−0.05

−0.51**

−0.38*

−0.38*

0.30

−0.09

−0.17

−0.17

Anger

−0.04

0.17

0.48**

−0.08

Coercive Controlling Violence (n = 34)

Hostility

p < 0.05;

*

0.16

Nonparental communication

0.22

0.29*

0.32**

Parental communication

Postseparation Emotional Dynamics

−0.12

Situational Couple Violence (n = 46)

−0.05

No Violence (n = 74)

Boundary ambiguity

Postseparation Behavioral Dynamics

Variable

Bivariate Correlations between Time 2 Coparenting Quality and Study Variables Within Violence Group

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